Sex, Virginity & Readiness Checklist

What IS sex?

Conventional definition:

Modern definition(s):

Sexual intercourse is a diverse collection of activities, and may be defined differently from one person to another. It’s important to recognize that people might experience pleasure in different ways, and if it works for you, so long as you are not harming anyone else, no one gets to tell you you’re doing it wrong.

When does a person lose their virginity?

How do I know when I’m ready?

Before you have sex with anyone, for the first time or in a new relationship, you must answer yes to the following questions:

Works Cited

Pickett, Brent. “Homosexuality.” Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, Stanford University, 5 July 2015,

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